(1) Why should husbands have other girls in the first instance? (2) Aren't we Muslims? (3) When did it became lawful to do that? (4) Why are we celebrating immorality? (5) have it degenerated to that level of brazenly displaying our indulgence in acts forbidden by Allah? (6) Don't we think that Allah will judge us and hold us accountable for such acts one day? Just for us to ponder as Muslims and reflect deeply over things we regard as "jokes"
there isn't any Islamic way of having girlfriends at all in Islam. You either marry her or if in the process of marrying her, then she is called a "Fiancee" which I am sure that is not what they meant by GIRLFRIEND.
To me The main problem starts when men don't even know the rules of polygamy..they only use the mathna wathulatha waruba'... they have forgotten that they are rules they must abide according to the verse..
Some men don't even fulfill most of their responsibilities at home,most of them can't even put a smile on the faces their wife's, still they go out their flirting around with other ladies. TAYA MATA BAZASUYI HAUKABA.
I am not against polygamy, who am I to go against Allah's commandment,no matter the jealousy no matter the love,it doesn't warrant me to choose my happiness over Allah's words. And I know living with one wife is not an easy task for men because of nature,which has always been there escuse.
Yes we agree with nature,and it's allowed but for those women that are over jealous,they need to be prayed for.not all women are like that so I wonder why people are generalizing the issue... the posts I have been seeing are heartbreaking.
Women are now the subjects every where..not all women are barbarians who can act heartlessly, we shouldn't use one woman's mistake to judge others.
To you my fellow sisters,we shouldn't let jealousy lead us to the wrong path."I DONT WANT TO SHARE MY HUSBAND WITH ANOTHER WOMAN "is the weakest word from the mouth of a woman that has faith.If truly you are a Muslim and you believe in Allah and his words you should not say such.
Don't we ever think of our daughters, sisters that are spinsters... Who do we expect them to marry?
"BANA SON KISHIYA TA CUTARDANI" is what we keep shouting.believe me if we hold onto the rope Allah no human on earth can harm us without the will of the EXALTED.WHERE IS OUR TAUHEED?
My fellow women we should please adjust because the society is ours.we are loyal creatures,we are brave hearts,we are souls that are pure and true,we are faithful beings with soft mind,we are sympathetic creatures, we are more than words can explain. We deserve kindness and respect. We are mothers, we are wifes, we are sisters, we are daughters,we are queens .WE ARE NOT GOONS
WE ARE MOTHERS OF THE NATION.
Please and please I am pleading to all those posting unnecessary comedies,joked like shan maganin tauri etc ..to please stop,we should rather be looking for solution for both parties (our honoured men and women)rather than to be making jokes out of serious issues.
Thanks
your sister in Islam Zainab Bello(miminoor)
Www.miminoor.blogspot.com
